What Is Sexual Addiction

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Almost everyone enjoys sex and masturbation. Most people enjoy it a lot. It is a natural phenomenon, right? Yes. But…

Is it possible to have an addiction to what seems so natural and instinctual? Many have made strong comparisons and logical correlations between the similarities of sexual addiction, alcoholism, drug addiction, and other verified addictions. They are the same in some ways and different in others.

First, I think it is important to define an “addiction” before describing a sexual addiction. Addiction in the context of this page will be defined as “a disorder that constitutes a repeated behavior which has caused negative consequences even though the individual has paradoxically made significant effort to quit or reduce the behavior”.

I agree that sounds too much like somebody with a degree in psychology.

Therefore, I think I will forget my educational background for a moment and describe an addiction in more universal terms. An Addiction is like “a problem where you know the solution is to stop doing it so much, but you just can’t stop for some unknown reason”.

I think at this point, it is important to say who is not sexually “addicted”. Frequently people may ask us if they are addicted to masturbation or sex. They will say something like: “I masturbate 3 times a day, am I addicted?” or they will say: “I have had sex with a different girl 35 times in the past month, am I a sex addict?” The answer to questions like this is always “I don’t know”.

Based on the limited amount of information above, it is impossible to say if the individual has an addiction or if they should begin to seek treatment. A young person that masturbates three times a day because they are often sexually aroused and/or has spontaneous erections is probably not an addict. This is especially a major concern among young men and women.

Changes are, their masturbation behavior will level out on its own in the future. Hormonal changes that cause an increase in sexual desire happen periodically throughout a person’s life, but especially so when young.

The same may be true for a recently divorced person who is “seriously looking” to settle down again but has not found the right person. The point being made here is: There are reasons why someone may be having frequent masturbatory or sexual experiences which are not necessarily related to a sexual addiction.

It is also important to mention that addiction is not necessarily related to quantity. Contrary to popular belief, quantity is not the most prominent factor in defining individuals who have addictions. The most prominent factor is what the results are from the addict’s behavior.

For example, take the case of two beer drinkers. Drinker # 1 drinks 12 beers a day. Drinker # 2 only drinks 10 beers per day.

Drinker # 1 was recently informed by his doctor that he has high blood pressure and may have a swollen liver. Drinker # 1 stops drinking. His blood pressure is manageable and his tender liver heals.

Drinker # 2 is told by his doctor that he has high blood pressure and a swollen liver. Drinker # 2 has also been arrested three times for driving while under the influence of alcohol and once for public drunkenness. Drinker # 2 tries to stop drinking when his doctor tells him he must do so for his health. Drinker # 2 continues to drink, continues to get in trouble with the police, and continues his poor health habits.

He may even start to drink more to ease the stress that all his drinking has caused. Drinker # 2 always drank less than # 1 but cannot quit drinking even though he has seriously tried to cut down or quit many times. Both drinkers used (and abused) alcohol, but Drinker # 2 is more likely to have actual alcoholism.

Some parallels can be drawn from the drinkers above when examining the life of someone with a sexual addiction. For example, Individual # 1 masturbates to ejaculation 3 to 4 times per day. Individual # 2 masturbates to ejaculation or has sex once per day (sometimes once every other day). Individual #1 is 18 years old and is quite limited when it comes to hobbies, sports, or school/work/religious/community involvement because of his remote location.

Individual # 2 has access to public transportation, cuts school, and takes days off from his job to go to adult theatres where he spends countless hours of his time engaged in viewing and obtaining erotic material. He spends considerable time thinking erotic thoughts and fondling his penis.

However, he only fully masturbates to ejaculation about once a day. He also is willing to have anonymous sex with any willing partner at any time. His fiancee found his stash of pornography and questioned his commitment to the relationship.

She often inquires where he has been when he is on long pornographic binges. This has affected several of his relationships in the past. Individual # 2 also often worries about the possibility of having contracted a Sexually Transmitted Disease (STD).

A lot of the time, he is is in denial and assumes that he is 100% immune to any disease because he usually wears condoms. Individual # 2 was invited to a one week vacation by his fiancee and her parents.

He did want to go deep down inside, but he knew he would not be able to get free for sex and masturbation while on the vacation so he declined to go. Both individuals used (and over-used) their sexuality, but individual # 2 is more likely to have a sexual addiction.

Religion & Masturbation

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Some conservative religious idealists will still say that masturbation is a sin. However, the reality of this statement must be seriously questioned because the words “masturbation” or “self-gratification” are not mentioned in the Bible at all.

Interestingly, one religious group went as far as to publish a Guide to Self-Control which is a list of strict instructions for quitting masturbation. It seems as though they have taken quite a bit of liberty in interpreting the word of God in their literature.

If it were a sin, couldn’t we assume that there would be stories, parables, or at least a statement against the practice of masturbation?

Wouldn’t there be dialogue about young or unmarried men being castrated or at least reprimanded for stimulating themselves? If God did not want us to masturbate, wouldn’t it have been the 11th commandment?

After all, the practice is very common. Why would any religious person dictate restrictive rules against masturbation? After careful study of the situation, the question is no longer whether or not it is against the doctrine, but rather the question becomes, why would anyone even suggest that it is? Several suspicions arise as to how the anti-masturbation ideals began.

(1) It could have started with parents who wanted to keep their children young and innocent. Keep in mind that for a parent, the thought of their own child acquiring a sexual identity and masturbating can be quite repulsive.

After all, isn’t the vice-versa thought of our parents having sex or masturbating awful to us? It’s because of  the generation gap.

Some parents, teachers, ministers, priests, etc. would like to keep their children young, innocent, and impressionable instead of letting them explore and experiment with sexual sensations on their bodies. Masturbating to ejaculation is a sure sign of having a sexuality, growing up, and having an adult body.

Often adults may assume a child of 10 – 12 years old is far too young to be experiencing such sensations. For such a young boy or girl to have a sex drive may be seen as nothing less than perverse. However, biologically speaking, this is the age at which normal hormonal changes in the body begin to happen which initiate the onset of puberty.

(2) Another possibility is that some high ranking religious leaders may have wanted to keep their followers feeling guilty as to encourage their frequent return to church to beg forgiveness. Not only do they keep coming back to church, but they also keep bringing their money to church for the offering baskets.

In reality, the more guilt there is from masturbation, the more money they make. Masturbation is not something a normal guy can just easily quit. Few men have been successful at quitting. Even among priests themselves, there is masturbation.

People have been known to suffer a great deal from trying to quit. The male body was designed to ejaculate on a regular basis. Funk and Wagnals Family Medical Guide says that regular release of semen is important for a healthy prostate.

Spiritually speaking, we should not be concerned about if or how much we masturbate. The act itself is a normal bodily function like any other. Trying to quit is impossible because we will no doubt eventually masturbate in our sleep.

Rather than working on trying to quit, we should try to examine more carefully what we are thinking about while doing it. If we are experiencing profound lust for another human being while masturbating, of course it is a source of guilt.

Fantasizing about people that we can not, should not, or will not be carrying on sexual relations with is damaging to our emotional spirituality. Having said that, I must mention that there is a link at the end of this story to the main page (Confidential Biography). I certainly can not argue that all the sexual things on the main site are acceptable. In fact, they are just the raw truth, not necessarily things that I advocate.

I feel it is much more of  a healthy practice if I concentrate on the sensation of my own body rather than sex fantasy or greedy self-indulgence.

But wait, isn’t masturbation all about self-indulgence? True, often the self is erotic and sensual but it all depends on our viewpoint of the situation to determine if it is self-indulgent. Many guys feel pride that they are male and find this to be quite an auto-erotic masturbatory thought. Feeling prideful to have a penis and a male body is a very powerful, self-gratifying thought.

It is the pride that gets us into trouble. Pride leads us to the road of the sin. I know pride does not allow me to serve the Power greater than myself and it certainly doesn’t allow me to follow God’s will. Self-pride does not take God into consideration. When we have pride for something, it is assuming that it is our own creation, our own sensation, and our own experience, having nothing to do with God.

Instead of being full of pride, why not consider gratitude? Being grateful for a male body and the sexual sensations that go along with it brings in a whole new realm of spiritual experience.

We then acknowledge it as gift and expressing thanks for it. It is no longer a selfish, self-gratifying , secretive act.

When we are grateful for something, it includes another entity besides ourself  because there is the fact that we are grateful to someone for it. To whom should we be grateful for this gift?  God, of course.

Male Anatomy Of The Reproductive System

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Definitions are documented in a counter-clockwise order (from bladder to sigmoid colon).

Bladder: A sac-like organ composed of musculomembranous fiber. Located in the pelvis, the bladder stores urine until it is excreted. The urine is passed to the bladder through ureters from each kidney in peristaltic (contractile) waves. During excretion, the urethral orifice below the bladder is opened and the urine passes through the urethra.

Though the urge to void the bladder of urine generally occurs when it has about 250 – 300 milliliters (8 – 10 ounces) in it, the average human bladder can hold almost twice this amount.

An average human excretes one to two quarts (or one to two liters) of urine per day, though this is greatly dependent upon the health, diet, and level of activity of the adult. Ingested water usually is excreted within four hours of ingestion. Urine is usually clear or yellow, though this depends upon the diet and health of the individual.

Urine has a distinct, ammonia-like smell which is primarily due to the nitrogenous wastes which make up 5 % of the urine. The chief constituent of these wastes is urea, though ammonia, uric acid, creatinine, and a host of other waste products also are present.

Pubic Bone: Part of the skeletal system undreneath the pubic hair area, above the penis.

Penis: The male sex organ that carries urine and semen from the male body, which is capable of erection by becoming engorged with blood during sexual arousal to make it more firm for penetration in sexual intercourse. The penis supports the urethra as it passes from the seminal vesicles, through the corpora cavernosa, to the meatus (opening) at the glans (head) of the penis.

Corpora Cavernosa: Made of spongy tissue which fill with blood during sexual arousal. As the blood fills these tissues, the penis begins to expand and become firm, and this condition is known as an erection. The erection facilitates the ejaculational transport of the semen to the female’s vagina.

Penis Glans: Enlarged tip, or head, of the penis. In its apex is the vertical meatus, or opening, of the urethra.

Foreskin: A loose fold of skin, or prepuce, which covers the glans of the penis. It is often removed from infants for sanitary and religious reasons. The removal of the foreskin is known as circumcision.

Urethra: A tube-like vessel that serves to transport urine and semen, conveying it from the bladder or testes through the penis.

Urethral Opening: The penis opening, or meatus.

Scrotum: The protective skin pouch which contains the testes (testicles). It is located in the groin, on the outside of the abdominal cavity. This positioning allows the testicles to remain at a temperature slightly below body temperature, a critical condition in the development of viable sperm. After puberty, the hair begins to grow on the scrotum and nearby skin. This pubic hair remains for the rest of the adult life.

Testis: (also known as testicle), The main reproductive organ of the male anatomy. They are responsible for generating the sperm cells (spermatozoa) and passing them into the epididymides for storage until ejaculation. The testes are slightly elongated globes, about 1 inch (2.5 cm) wide by 1 1/2 inches (3.8 cm) long. The testes are located outside of the abdominal cavity in a protective pouch of skin called the scrotum. This positioning allows them to remain slightly below body temperature, which is critical for the development of viable spermatozoa.

Epididymides: (plural for epididymis) Narrow, elongated storage vessels for newly generated sperm. They are located within the scrotum, adjoining each testicle. Sperm remain in the cord-like epididymides until ejaculation, at which time they eject them into the vas deferens.

Vas Deferens: The narrow continuation of the canal of the epididymis, serving to transport the sperm cells from the epididymis, up through a canal toward the bladder, and then to the ejaculatory duct.

Anus: The opening where solid waste is excreted.

Cowper’s Glands: (also known as bulbourethral glands) The two pea-sized lobes connecting to the side of the urethra, responsible for secreting a lubricant into the urethra to facilitate the transport of sperm during ejaculation. This lubricant is frequently referred to as “pre-cum” in English slang.

Prostate Gland: Responsible for secreting a fluid into the urethra during sexual arousal. This alkaline fluid comes before the sperm cells and helps reduce the acidity of vaginal secretions, so that the sperm cells are not destroyed by this acidity. The prostate gland is about 1 1/2 inches in diameter.

Ejaculatory Duct: Short tubule located just above the prostate gland. It is formed by the connection of the vas deferens and the seminal vesicles, and serves to transport sperm through the prostate gland and into the urethra.

Seminal Vesicles: Responsible for secreting a fluid component of semen as the sperm cells pass through the vas deferens. The two vesicles resemble small, bulbous pouches and are located just above the prostate gland.

Rectum: One of the last portions of the large intestine, which extends from the sigmoid colon to join the anal canal. Fecal wastes are stored in the rectum until they are expelled by passing them through the anal canal and out of the anus. The rectum is about five inches long,

Sigmoid Colon (spelled as sigismoid colon above): Connects the end of the descending colon to the rectum. The rectal and sigmoid sections are often referred to as the rectosigmoid.

Pro’s & Con’s Of Long Sex Duration Gap?

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Do you often indulge in extended sex sessions and a little bit worried about whether it involves any disadvantage? There is no need to get tensed as you aren’t alone in this perspective. In this post, we are going to tell you about the pros and cons of a long sex duration Gap in detail. Please check out the complete without any delay ensuring that nothing gets missed.

Advantages of extended sex sessions

  •      Lower Stress

As we all know, having sex can result in eliminating the stress from the body. Getting indulged in longer sessions will ensure that you stay distracted from tensions that directly lower the stress levels.

  •      Boosting Libido

Involving in sex for a long time will give an improvement in your libido. There will be a better blood flow and elasticity for the upcoming session of love once you enjoy banging for extended periods.

  •      Lowering blood pressure

Another exciting benefit of having longer sex Gap is lowering blood pressure that can be very useful for the body. It is a remarkable benefit of enjoying sex that can be very beneficial in the long run.

  •      Burn calories

If you don’t know, sex is a very incredible way of exercise, and you may end up burning lots of calories in a longer sex session. It may not replace a treadmill, but still pretty useful for individuals who don’t get too much time for exercise.

Disadvantages of extended sex Gap

  • Sleepiness

It is a no-brainer that there is a lot of energy used during sex and extending it to extended levels will drain up your body for sure. There are chances that you may feel a little bit low after having sex for longer times.

  •      Sore Penis

Although it isn’t too common, still there are chances that some people may feel this side effect. There is a chance that you may feel a little bit soreness in the penis after extended sexual sessions.

Conclusion

As you can see that the benefits of extended lovemaking sessions are more than disadvantages. If you are one of those people who often enjoy such sessions, then we suggest you enjoy them in the way you like.

The stamina and its effects vary from one person to another so there is a chance that some may feel all these benefits while others don’t have them at all.

11 Unbelievable Facts About Sex And The City Movie

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Sex and the City movies were released more than a decade ago, but still the funny conversations and comedy make us laugh. Are you still one of those girls who often yourself as Miranda, Samantha, Carrie, or Charlotte? Everyone loves to hear about the characters of this amazing movie & TV series. It is one of the most enjoyable series that we can still watch calmly with great affection and laugh for sure.
In this post, we are going to let you relive the world of this classic series by mentioning 11 impressive facts about Sex and the City Movie. Let’s check out each of them and have some laughs.

Tie Dye Maxi Dress

Do you know the Tie Dye Maxi dress that Carrie wore in the scene with Mr. Big sent accidentally to Mexico for a photo shoot? The directors sent a crew member especially to Mexico for taking it back to New York for the shoot.

Rented Clock

The avid lovers of Sex and the City must have noticed the clock beside the bed of Carrie. You will be surprised to know that it was actually rented from a local store. However, the producers found the same model when the clock owner increases the rental price for the next shoot.

Real Fire Drill

During the filming of the “I curse the day you were born” scene, a fire drill was taking at the Catholic Girls School. Due to this, there were lots of teenagers came out of the building saying “We Love you Mr. Big”.

Indian Cab Driver

The Indian cab driver that featured during the fight between Carrie and Miranda in front of Carrie’s home was the same used in the “Up the Butt” scene. We bet most individuals might not realize about it much.

Pink & Blue Tie

There were two ties in the wardrobe of Patricia Field having pink and blue color ready for Harry. The choice depends on whether it was a boy or a girl. Field only knows it was a girl just a few minutes before the beginning of the scene.

Ending Song

How many of you love the song that featured at the end of the film? Can you guess who the singer of this melodious song is? Well, she is one and only Jennifer Hudson who has given voice to numerous amazing songs.

Audience Love for Steve

The audience loved the character of Steve pretty much. Due to this, the directors receive tons of emails that request there shouldn’t any bad happen to Steve. However, they think differently and let Steve do something bad.

Conclusion

Sex and the City will always remain an integral part of viewers who have watched its TV series and movies while growing up. However, it is pretty assured that most of us must have been unaware of the facts mentioned in the post. We believe that you must have feel delighted after knowing them.

How Wet Is Too Wet?

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As much as I love learning about the topics that I write about, I always find myself getting into trouble for voicing the information in my habitual dry, crude, straight to the point kind of way. So, don’t think this will be any different, because when it comes to vagina’s well I am going to tell you like it is, plus I love trouble ;)

In the last year, I have gotten several emails, one in particular that stated “I had to write about this topic.”  How wet is too wet? The simple answer is “I don’t know!” The truth is that there is no easy way to explain wetness (vaginal lubrication). Our vaginas are like an onion; there are multiple layers each one just as delicate and intricate as the other to make a beautiful yet complicated organ.

You can’t control how wet you get and honestly, I am not always sure what the big concern is, but you can control the health you provide your vagina. A healthy vagina has an acidic pH balance to fight off infections which is provided by bacteria naturally found in our nether regions. Just like saliva cleans and lubricates our mouths, our vaginas work in a similar way, secreting fluids on a regular basis.

All women have discharge, however the amount, the color, and smell vary from woman to woman. Normal discharge may appear clear, cloudy white, and/or yellowish when dry on clothing. Normal discharge can change in appearance and consistency for various reasons including menstrual cycle, hormonal changes, emotional issues, nutrition, medication, and sexual arousal.

Signs that may indicate an infection are: discharge with itching, rash or soreness, persistent increasing discharge, burning on skin during urination, white clumpy discharge (like cottage cheese), and grey/ white or yellow/green discharge with a foul odor. Please seek medical attention or advice, if you have any additional concerns or may be experiencing these symptoms.

During sexual arousal, a woman has an increase in vaginal wetness, especially during the arousal phase. This is due to changes in blood flow and the clitoris dilating, which allows the whole area to become flushed. This increase in wetness has many purposes, one of which is to facilitate penetration and protect the vaginal wall (too little wetness can lead to painful sex).

However, some women I have come to find out are very embarrassed of “how wet” they get. They have asked me if it is a problem and how to fix it. When there is an excessive amount of wetness women fear they will not feel as “tight” or that it feel like they are urinating (female ejaculation). Whatever the reason feeling vulnerable during sex is uncomfortable and sometimes even disheartening.

There is nothing to be embarrassed about, the wetness experienced is just part of your body enjoying the moment, but I understand that this is easier said than done, so here are a few helpful tips:

• This first one is not my favorite, but I have read that you can take an antihistamine. Be mindful to not use one that make you drowsy, but basically this medication dries everything up including your vagina and allergies.

• Place a towel under your body to absorb extra moisture, and you can also have a cloth nearby that you can use for quick clean ups. You can also place a waterproof pad under a towel for additional protection to the bed.

• There are also some creams that can help, but there is not much proof that they work.

• Change your diet to a more vegetarian lifestyle, the cows and your vagina will benefit!

• Finally, there is the Konov Principle, which is bringing a conscious awareness to you vagina and visualizes the optimum and healthy amount of wetness. Like meditation, it needs to be practiced daily to be felt fully.

The best advice I have thought is from me as someone who has been in that situation is that there is only one solution… enjoy the moment and build the sexual goddess that is inside of you.

3 Advanced Oral Sex Techniques To Spice Up Oral Sex On Her

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Oral sex not always has to be limited to oral pleasure, you can increase the chances of orgasms in your woman, as well as, going from simply orgasms to mind blowing orgasms using these 3 advanced oral sex techniques to spice up your oral sex:

1. Fingering

Your fingers are definitely the best accompaniments to oral sex.

There are so many more ways to pleasure your partner with your finger inside her and your tongue outside her!

But, before sticking your finger inside of her make sure you follow these two golden rules of fingering:

1. Make sure she is wet.

2. Whatever technique you use, make sure you do it slowly and gently unless she asks you otherwise.

Ok, now slide your finger in and out of her slowly and gently. You can keep your finger straight, or you can put a bit of a bend in it if you like to help reach the G-spot.

You can also use your finger to press on the walls of her vaginal canal or to go deep inside, depending on how your woman likes it.

One of the most popular fingering moves is to slide the tip of your finger in and out of her vaginal canal about ½ an inch – you can even move your fingertips in circles to trace the outer rim of her vagina.

Women love this because the first inch or so of the vagina is jam-packed with pleasure inducing nerves. You can twist your finger as you go in and out as well – this creates a wonderful sensation that carries throughout the entire vaginal canal.

Some women prefer two or three fingers, but contrary to popular belief, most women prefer only one finger. So, make sure to ask your partner what she prefers.

Please! Make sure your fingernails are clean and trimmed well with no hangnails. Hangnails and jagged fingernails can cause small cuts inside your partner’s vagina.

2. G-Spot stimulation

First of all, the G-spot is a small dime-to-quarter-sized bundle of nerves about two inches inside of the vaginal canal. It is a rough-feeling tissue located in the front wall of her vagina.

You can give a great orgasm to your woman by only stimulating her G-Spot, but the feeling of this type of orgasm differs greatly from a clitoral orgasm. So, to make things even better you can give her both types of orgasms at once!

It feels absolutely wonderful for a woman to be stimulated with a finger(s) in her G-Spot while being stimulate with a wet tongue on her clitoris, but it’s mind blowing when a man is able to give her a simultaneous orgasm in both places at the same time!

Now, the G-spot is fairly simple to find. Place the index or middle finger of your right hand inside her vaginal canal with your palm up. Gently make a “come here” motion with your finger, and that should pretty much do it.

Combine this technique with some of the clitoral stimulation techniques (with your tongue!) and your honey will be in heaven!

3. Using sex toys

Now, when you guys are ready to really spice oral sex up, that means…

It’s time to bring the toys baby! 🙂

Make sure your partner is comfortable with the idea.

If she’s not open to it yet, use a gentle approach to this because if your partner feels uncomfortable or pressured, she will not open her mind and body fully to cunnilingus and your efforts will be unsuccessful.

Hopefully your woman will be up for anything!… Eventually… So, you guys can take oral sex to the next level!

There are basically two kinds of toys you’ll choose from to spice up oral sex:

1. Toys that stay outside of the vaginal canal

The toys that stay outside the vulva are probably the best to start out with, especially if your partner or you are at all apprehensive about bringing toys into the bedroom.

This kind of toys usually offers some kind of vibration which feels wonderful in combination with long, soft strokes by a tongue!

Look for clitoral stimulation toys, you’ll find a great variety of those to choose from.

For toys that stimulate the clitoris, you can gently move them around the vulva first (never place them directly on the clitoris at first) and then move them into the clitoris when your partner is more aroused.

2. Toys that go inside the vaginal canal

The toys that go inside the vagina are usually for people who are more comfortable with the use of toys during sex.

These toys are generally phallic-shaped, and some are even made with silicone to directly resemble an erect penis. Other models of this type of toy are more simply designed (think bullet or dome shaped) and are sleeker.

There are many shapes and sizes, so it is important to choose one that both you and your partner are comfortable with. This type of toy can come with or without vibration, and with or without extra “pieces” that can stimulate the clitoris, other parts of the vulva and even her anus.

For toys that go inside the vaginal opening, you can use them just as though you would use your penis for intercourse. Be careful though! This must always be done gently, and you must take your cues from your partner or it could spell disaster.

Remember: Always to pay attention to every reaction that she gives you when you try something. ou can even ask her if she likes what you’re doing or not, or what she would like to experiment.

15 Best Sex Tips To Spice Sex Up!

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Ladies! Go ahead and give them a try!…

I’ll bet these will spice up your sex life! 😉

1) The missionary style gets a bum rap a lot of times, but a little variety can really spice it up.

Ladies, try sticking your legs straight up and crossing them.

2) Find a large sturdy mirror, put it on the floor and make love doggie-style on top of it.

3) Use some of the champagne by pouring it between your legs for some fizzy stimulation. Invite your guy down for a drink.

4) Love swings have been used for centuries and have gotten rave reviews for their ease of use and the ability to try many different positions. The slight swinging motion can produce intense orgasms.

5) If you can undress in a sexy way or do a little striptease that will most probably excite your partner greatly.

Here are some tips:

• Look your partner in the eye

• Do it in front of a full-length mirror

• Touch yourself slowly and in places that bring you pleasure

• Take things off piece by piece, very s-l-o-w-l-y

• Caress your skin as you remove articles of clothing

• Guys, make sure the socks come off first if you are the stripper

• Take the underwear off last

6) Rocking chairs without arms can create wonderful sensations when she sits on top of his penis, and they gently rock together.

7) A mint in the mouth adds a wonderful sensation for oral sex.

8) You can tighten your vagina by using the muscle that stops the flow of urine midstream. Tighten for 5 to 30 seconds and work up to 20 reps. You can do this anywhere. Your guy will love you for it, and as an added bonus it will help prevent incontinence as you get older.

9) Help your guy to have a super orgasm by bringing him close to climax but stopping action before he goes over the top. Do this several times before you let him explode.

10) When giving your guy oral sex…

Wrap your lubricated hand around his penis and instead of stroking him in the same direction your mouth is going, move it in the opposite direction.

11) When your guy is about to climax (if you can’t tell, ask him to let you know), contract your vaginal muscles at a steady rhythm to intensify his pleasure.

12)Most guys are extremely turned on by watching their wife caress herself or even masturbate. It lets them know what feels good to her so they can try to do the same.

13) A device called a cock-ring vibrator helps the man sustain a much longer erection while the attached vibrator stimulates the clitoris and can help bring a woman to orgasm.

This is one of the best sex tips to spice up sex and prolong pleasure!

Give it a try!… He will love it… And you too! 😉

14) Women can contract their pelvic muscle and then their anal muscle in alternating sequence to build up their genital sensations.

15) While a woman needs to hear she is beautiful when making love, a man loves to hear you tell him how wonderful his penis is.

Compliment its thickness, hardness, length, smoothness, size of head, strong veins or whatever you enjoy about it.

Your man will looooove that!

Just remember… Only honest compliments!

There you have them!… These are some of the best sex tips in Michael’s book “500 Lovemaking Tips And Secrets”… But there are much more!

I chose to recommend you this e-book because it is by far the best collection of sex tips that I’ve found through my research.

This guide has a HUGE variety of GREAT sex tips, ideas, and techniques for you and your man to Spice Sex Up!

Here, Michael put together a very nice variety of tips for every aspect of a couple’s sex life. You’ll find tips and ideas for orgasms, oral sex, foreplay, romance, sex positions, anal sex, couple’s masturbation, sex toys, seduction… You name it!… He even tells you what NOT to do to ruin orgasms and sex!

Basically, it’s like having a “varied sex menu” that you can just grab anytime and pick up a new idea to spice up the night! 😉…

Pretty cool guide to have to Spice Sex Up and avoid routine! Take a look at it here.Pretty cool

Aashamed Of Using Sex Toys?

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If you are someone that wants to find out why men are ashamed of using sex toys, here is some advice for you. There are a lot of people that love them, too. Why not learn more about this and find out if you can change a man’s mind about sex toys?

A lot of men grew up thinking that things like masturbation or sexuality were something to be ashamed of. So, a lot of sex toys are seen as bad because they encourage them to be more sexual. They are told that sex is only for having babies and it’s not supposed to be fun, so it makes them anxious to talk about sex beyond the scope of procreation. This can be a hard mindset to work with if you have a partner that hates anything but dull sex, but sometimes you can talk them into it as long as you present in the right way.

Some men consider sex toys to be something that means that they are not enjoying their partner as she is. For instance, if they get a toy for themselves to use in the bedroom, if that helps them to get more aroused then they think it makes their partner a little ashamed if that works for them. If you can tell the person that you like that they are enjoying themselves and it doesn’t matter how they get to that point, it can help them see sex toys in a new light.

Using a sex toy is not that big of a deal if you don’t make it one. Some people that are in a relationship with a man get mad if the look at porn or do anything beyond having sex with who they are with. That mindset is not the norm as much as it used to be, but there are still people out there teaching their kids that sex is only for procreation. So, it makes men ashamed because they think they are doing something that is what amounts to an abomination in today’s society when it’s not.

Some sex toys are extreme, so it can make a man embarrassed. For instance, if the toys involve tying someone up, they may think it’s a little much for what they are into. But, a lot of the time if they try just to let go and have fun with this kind of thing, they start to enjoy it. You have to ease a man into stuff like this. While you may think a lot of them are gung-ho about getting to do anything that relates to sex, that’s not always the case with all men.

You need to go shopping at a sex shop with a man to see what they see and want to try. If they are too ashamed to go into a place like that, then you can shop for the best male sex toys online . Get a list set up for what they are willing to try and what to avoid at this point. The worst thing to do is to make an order and tell them they have to try everything out. That will for sure make most men just ignore it because they feel like they are being forced.

Get some toys for yourself and let the man you’re with use them with you. Make sure you are comfortable with a toy first and practice with it a little to see what you like about it if you can. That way, you can guide them on what to do, and they understand how you react to it. If they see that you enjoy it, that can give them the idea that they want to give it a try too because they want you to feel like they do when using toys. Get him the best pocket pussy on the market and see how he reacts.

Don’t forget to come up with a way to stop sex with toys that someone is getting uncomfortable with. You need a safe word in the bedroom. A simple “stop” when things are getting uncomfortable should be enough to end what is going on. Even if you don’t want to stop, if someone tells you to then you need to, or they won’t want to keep experimenting with you. It doesn’t mean they don’t like you; it just means that they require more time to get comfortable with that kind of situation.

Find some videos of other people using the toys and having fun. And have an open mind because the man is probably going to say some things like they like that position or that toy in a video. You can’t get irritated about this because what they are saying is they’d like to try it with you. Most men can tell you that they know they’ll never get with the porn actresses and that it’s just a means to learn more about sex and to have a little fun by themselves. There’s nothing wrong about that, and jealousy about a man watching videos just makes a sex life boring.

The primary goal is to have fun and not just to try to force someone to try something out. If you’re not having fun, or you know they are not, then you need to just switch to something else at the time. You don’t always have to use toys, and it’s better to bring them in little by little. Make a dresser drawer a spot to keep toys and tell your partner if at any time they want to try something just to let you know. When people have control and don’t feel forced, they are less likely to feel ashamed of trying new things.

Many men are ashamed of using sex toys. The reasons why were just outline here for you. Once you start working with a person to help abate their anxiety, you may just create another fan of these kinds of toys!

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Are men more interested in sex than women? Feminists may balk at such a question. After all, in the 21st century, women have more freedoms to do as they wish than in the past.

However, the biological makeup of a person doesn’t change despite the advances in our society. Before dismissing the notion that men are more interested in sex than women, some factors need to be considered that could make the answer to the question a “yes.”

1. Men Are Less Discriminating Than Women

One of the most attractive factors about romance movies and romance novels is the intimacy that is created between the man and the woman. It is an intimacy that doesn’t happen in a day or two.

It builds up over time and results in a passionate relationship that is all consuming. As reported in The Sun, a study found that men are not one, not two, not three, but four times more likely to want to have sex with a woman on a first date.

Women, on the other hand, are much more liable to want to get to know the man first or feel some connection or even fall in love before just jumping in bed with him. In other words, the building up and the romance that often exists before the first sex act isn’t as important to men as it is for women.

2. Men Think About Sex More Than Women Do

How often do women think about sex? Is it something that enters their minds on a daily basis? As reported in WebMD, the answer is a “no” for women but a “yes” for men. Males (under the age of 60) think about sex more than females do.

In fact, they think about it at least once a day. Furthermore, even though fantasies about sex decrease for both men and women as men and women age, men still fantasize about sex more often than women do even as they age. So it appears that sex is often on a man’s mind, which could mean that on average, they are far more interested in sex than women are.

3. Women Have Other Concerns to Worry About, Such as Pregnancies

Societies perceive men and females differently. In some societies, women have few to no rights. In other countries, such as the United States, women have many rights, but differences and perceptions still prevail.

As reported in WebMD, women are less interested in sex than men because other factors come into play for a woman. For example, a woman who has sex with many different partners is often looked down upon in societies across the board.

A female prostitute is highly criticized in all companies, but a female who is not a prostitute but who has sex with many different men is also looked down upon in societies across the board.

Although there are feminists who fight the stereotypes and perceptions and work to create a society where women are treated equally, many women are not willing to risk the societal ridicule of a female who has many sexual partners.

Females also have to worry about the possibility of pregnancy when it comes to sexual activity with a man. In many cases, if a woman becomes pregnant out of wedlock, it will be her responsibility to take care of the infant once it’s born. Many women who want to avoid the possibility of out-of-wedlock pregnancy will be discriminating when it comes to sexual activity.

4. Men are Highly Visible and Like to Look at Sexy Women

It’s been said that people can’t help looking at beautiful women. It’s also be said that men are more visual than females, and according to Men’s Health, that could be true.

In a study, people were given photos of attractive women and told not to look at them. The study found that it was hard for the men to not look at the pictures even when told not to. In fact, their impulses were found to be four times stronger than that for women.

Based on these four examples of men and sexuality, it could be concluded that men have more interest in sex than women. This is not to say that women don’t have a stake in sex; it just means that people are interested in it more.

If people are more likely to want sex more than women, is that a bad thing? According to Marita McCabe, a Deakin University professor of psychology, it isn’t. She advises that you understand the different chemistries of males and females and then approach a relationship from that perspective.

If you are a female, it can help your relationship to understand where your boyfriend or husband is coming from when it comes to sex and sexuality activity.